Category: Relationships

Raptured Friendship

Rapture has always had a spiritual connotation and most people have also always tried to avoid hearing that word, especially all the meanings associated with it. Interestingly, each and every...

Is it LOVE or LUST?

All young people will at a point ponder on this question- Is what I am feeling love or lust?Having one crush after another comes with confusing feelings. Research has shown that most people get confused between love and lust. The majority don’t know the difference. This is why you find a lot of people engaging in unhealthy relationships thinking they are in love yet they are in lust. The truth is there is a big difference between the two. One survives long term and the other, short term.In defining the two, we would be able to establish the real difference.Love is an intense feeling of affection toward another. It’s a profound and caring attraction that forms an emotional attachment. On the flip side, Lust is a strong desire of a sexual nature that is based on a sexual nature and is based on physical attraction. We can also say that Lust is solely based on physical attraction and fantasy—it often dissipates when the  “real person” surfaces. Lust is fueled by idealization and projection. You see what you hope someone will be or need to be rather than seeing the real person, flaws and all—which is love.Here are some signs to watch for to differentiate SIGNS OF LUST… 1. You’re totally focused on a person’s looks and bodies. 2. You’re interested...

When is the right time to start dating?

Nothing generates more interest and controversy among young people than these topics- Relationship, Dating, boyfriend/ girlfriend, beloved/sex. Without dispute, the youthful period is an exciting time laden with a lot...

Questions Young people Ask

It’s February and love is in the air. Over the years, Valentine’s Day has become synonymous with proposals, romantic nights and sex. This month, we will be answering common questions...